Feb 18: I BET YOU’VE NEVER DONE THIS
Last time I went to R’s I remembered to take my various clocks from the storage shed. I set them up around the Schoolhouse. Two of them work fine. One of them runs, ticks pleasantly, but doesn’t keep the right time. But, I keep it in the bedroom anyway, just because I like the ticking sound. Just have to remember not to look at it!
Feb 17: LEMON OR LEMONADE?
This morning I got to see the inside of PricyHouse, and meet the owners. I left after the visit feeling quite discouraged and thinking that house probably wasn’t the way to go. The folks are nice enough, but they are pretty mainstream folk, and this isn’t a career rental but rather the house they plan to retire to in ten or so years, so they really want things kept up and more-or-less as they are. Which is fine, I guess, it just gave me an odd feeling. He said “we’ve got a bit of a thistle problem, and I encourage tenants to just go out there with a hoe and get them while they’re small.” Then the wife said “or you can just have the County come up and spray them..” Horrified, I said “oh no, I’d much rather dig them,” but immediately I’m wondering how much herbicide is already in the soil from earlier tenants having chosen the other way. On the plus side, I told them I’d be willing to pay the whole lease’s rent up front, if they’d be willing to drop the rent a bit, and they seemed willing to at least consider that.
The other thing that discouraged me was the interior of the house. It just seemed kinda tacky to my taste (disregard what I said a few days ago about having a tolerance for everything :-). Plastic edging on the wall corners, fake wallboard, and orange shag carpeting in nearly every room (okay, maybe that’s just in the bedrooms, but there’s *some* kind of carpet just about everywhere in the house except the kitchen and the bathrooms). I hate carpet in general, and shag carpet in particular, and I won’t even comment on the orange. If I was buying the house I would tear out the carpet before I even moved in, no matter if it was the depths of winter. But in a rental, you can’t do that. The other thing that didn’t especially warm me to the place was its size. It’s huge. Nice size kitchen, three medium-size bedrooms, two bathrooms, and then two large other rooms. One is certainly supposed to be a living room and I guess the other would be a dining room or family room or some such. The living room and I’ll-call-it-a-dining room are fairly central to the house and you have to go through one or both of them to get anywhere else. I almost got lost in the place.
So by the time I left the visit, I was feeling pretty ‘yuck’ about the whole scene – I mean, if you’re going to pay top dollar, you should get something *more* appealing instead of *less* appealing, right? The current Schoolhouse arrangement that is costing me AlmostNothing suddenly started to seem not so bad, and I could just go visiting friends in another town for a few days during Spring Break when the owner and his family needs to occupy the place.
But… You knew there was going to be a “but”, right?
That afternoon when I stopped by to see KH to see how she felt after having seen the place and mulled it over for a day, I got a total surprise. She’d come up with a compromise idea and was totally excited about it. She was disappointed when I told her how unappealing the interior is to me, but after she described her idea, it began to grow on me. Here’s the gist of it – KH wants to farm. She moved to ThisLittleValley largely so that she could pursue this dream. The kind of farming she envisions is growing part hay and other animal feed, and part market crops. She has some fields associated with her current rental and in fact was reluctant to consider leaving (in spite of some indoor problems with the rental) because she’s excited about the kind of hay production she says she can get off the acres there. She was looking at PricyHouse with the same eye, looking at the fields and thinking about how productive they could be. So here’s her plan: rather than moving in with me, she’s interested in *leasing* most of the acreage from me (PricyHouse has 40 acres attached). She’d stay in her current rental, but she thinks she can grow enough on the fields at PricyHouse to allow her to pay me a modest amount per month. If the landlords give even a small discount for my paying the whole lease up front, and then I add in what KH is offering per month, that brings the PricyHouse cost down smack dab to the same as what I’d expect to pay for *any* rental house in this area. Plus it lets me keep my privacy, or have the option of renting out a room (or even two) if the right roommate comes along. In our area the Forest Service and Bureau of Land Management hire lots of summer help, and there are always lots of folks looking for rooms then. Although most of them are young kids, lots of partiers/drinkers that wouldn’t be suitable for me, I can always keep on the lookout for the older/quieter folks that might be just perfect. This idea is starting to grow on me! In addition, KH will help me prune the orchard trees (apparently there are apple, peach and apricot). KH and I will mark off where I want to have my own garden, and we’ll agree what areas are hers. She plans some dryland feed crops that don’t need to be irrigated, plus some market crops that do (strawberries and maybe tomatoes). The key to her plan is something I haven’t mentioned yet – the well that feeds this house holds water that is 126 degrees F in the ground. There is some kind of cooling system so that you get cool water when you turn on the faucet indoors, but if you let the tap run it eventually warms up to about 105F. KH wants to use hoop-rows and drip irrigation and take advantage of the soil that is warmed by such hot water, to grow crops that are not currently or largely grown in this area due to our very short growing season (we get hard frosts well into June, and they start up again in October if not September).
Suddenly the ugly carpet seems so trivial! If KH does this, it will inspire me to plant “for the market” as well as for my own use too. I do have some more questions to ask KH about her plans (I think it gets pretty windy there, how will her hoops hold up? and more along those lines) but the idea of pushing into the future of a local food economy *definitely* sounds like something I want to be a part of, even if there are some risks involved. KH has already talked to several local restaurants/caterers and they are interested in using local produce if they can get it. Our farmer’s market is pitiful (half an hour max, once a week for just a few summer months, usually only 3-4 vendors with just a few items because they know they only get a few customers) and any produce KH or I can offer there would be a big boost. Can you tell I’m excited about the possibilities? Oh yeah, and KH would probably *not* put her horses there, unless she needed to separate one for illness or something. But in the summer when school’s out (she’s a teacher, currently, at the high school over the hill in CountySeat) she would put some goats in a movable pen there. She’d come by every day to move the pen. This would give her some extra feed for the goats once it’s run out at her place, plus help dramatically with the thistle problem the landlord referred to at PricyHouse.
Okay, I need to settle down and just mull this over for a few days, see if it still feels like a good idea. The landlords seemed pretty willing to rent to me, though they were worried about whether it was too much for me, both in size and in price. If KH can show me that she’s prepared to deal with my concerns like wind, etc, then I think the price is not a problem anymore. And as for the size of the place, I’ve already started to envision – close off all three bedrooms and maybe the back bathroom (I don’t think I have to worry about frozen pipes with hot water in the lines, but will have to check on that). The dining room becomes my office, and the living room becomes my bedroom/living room. Instant cozy cabin with three storage rooms – er, rental rooms – er, root cellars in the back! Say, does anyone have any good ideas about workable coverings for shag carpet? I have a dog and a cat (and might add kittens) and we all shed. Including me… :) I’m thinking throw rugs, big enough to cover some ground, but light enough to be taken outside and shaken out every few days. Too bad I can’t just plank over the floor and then remove the planking when I move out…
Feb 16 FIREWOOD
Today a local gadabout and all-around Helpful Fellow (as far as I know that’s all he does) named JA went with me to KH’s house, where there are lots of downed tree limbs 6-8” in diameter, including some that blew down across a fence she needs to repair. He chainsawed up some of them and she and I split the pile for firewood. Mostly box elder, we think. I haven’t burned that before, will see how it goes. It’s very dry, so should be fine. I bought him lunch at the WiFi Cafe after. Then she and I headed over to PricyHouse to look around. The owners weren’t there even though we expected them to be around this weekend, cleaning up after the last tenants left. But just walking around the outside and chatting with neighbor BH who stopped by when she saw our cars, KH was encouraged, looking at the fields and fences, and the road, which she’d been worried wasn’t good for her low-clearance sedan, but turns out it is not a problem.
Feb 14 IT’S JUST NOT RIGHT
No one should have to spend Valentine’s day moving their stuff out of their ex’s house. I’m just sayin’…
Feb 13 ABUNDANCE – OF COMMUNITY, OF OPTIONS
Today I am in awe, of a couple of things. I am in awe of the support I am receiving from my community, and I am in awe of the apparent abundance of housing options that have started to appear out of the woodwork, when three weeks ago it seemed there were only three houses available for rent in all of ThisLittleValley. The “moccasin telegraph” has kicked in big-time around here. That’s the term (from some movie I saw not long ago but have already forgotten which one it was) for the local word-of-mouth news-spreading ability. It seems that half the town is looking for rentals for me. Yesterday there was a message at the herbal shop to call friend SS because she knew of a mobile home for rent (turns out it’s one I knew about already, but still…). Then today I get an email from BH, who I had not told of my plight yet, saying she heard a rumor I was looking, from KnittingTeacher over at the weavers/yarn shop (who I *had* told), and there’s a dandy ranch house available across the way from her, and she would sure love to have me as a neighbor! Now, I’ve seen BH and her husband several times recently, since they are regular library patrons. But I have a sort of special relationship with BH and I was reluctant to appear too ‘drama queen’ to her, so I hadn’t told her yet. The special relationship is that BH runs a graphic design studio and has provided me with several proofreading jobs over the past year or so, ranging from a postcard, to a brochure, all the way up to a full-length book. She’s also very active in local community government, and overall just a very appealing, stylish, dignified kind of person. Not someone I want to whine to about my woes. On the other hand, I really *did* want her to keep her ears open for me, plus I also wanted her to know that I’m trying to increase my income, just in case she has any potential jobs for me. I was just waiting for ‘the right time,’ as they say, and I waited a bit too long and the local gossip – er, I mean moccasin telegraph – got to her first.
Anyway, the house available near her, which is quite big (and pricy) for one person, brings up an interesting dilemma for me. I have two personal attributes – positive ones, I think – that are coming into play as I try to decide on a place to live. The first attribute is a very large flexibility/willingness to accommodate a living environment that others would find unbearable. Construction, for example – when I lived in my fixer-upper over in CountySeat ten years ago, there were unfinished floors the whole ten years I was there, except when I finally finished them right before I put the place up for sale. Lack of visual aesthetics doesn’t bother me much – I don’t much care if the walls are OSB, or the windows are missing their trim, or if the siding looks odd, or even if it’s a trailer with zero aesthetic appeal. Er, well, I suppose I *do* have a threshhold there somewhere, because the plasticky interior of most trailers does turn me off. But for the most part my tolerance for fixer-upper-ness (or, let’s just call it what it is: decrepitude) would incline me toward seeking out the absolutely cheapest rental I can find that meets my other needs (basically, my “other needs” are: reasonable proximity to the places I go, safety for the cat & dog – ie a fenced or fenceable yard if near traffic or neighbors – and room for a garden). But the other attribute I think I have is a high ability to set a personal goal and meet it. I don’t mean magic airy-fairy stuff like winning the lottery, but if I were to commit myself to, say, increasing my income by $x per month in order to pay for a fairly high-priced rental, I’m quite confident that within some reasonable timeframe I could accomplish that. So *that* would incline me to take the most *appealing* rental regardless of price (within reason) and then make it my focus to increase my income so that I can afford it without dipping into savings any further.
Right now I’m most tempted to take the latter option, get into a nice place, and then focus on the money. But that’s not the frugal path, it’s a bit of a “buy now, pay later” attitude and I want to be very cautious. I also want to not forget the other attendant expenses I need to be thinking about, such as utility bills and heating costs. Part of me thinks it’s not a sufficiently frugal attitude. Another part of me totally relishes the idea of setting an income goal and moving towards it.
When making a decision like this, I always think about the worst-case scenario. What’s the worst that could happen? The worst that could happen if I rented PricyHouse, is that I might fail at increasing my income sufficiently, which would mean the difference would come out of my savings. Or, I suppose if it really turned out to be a mistake to have gone there, I might have as much as a year’s rent at risk, if they required a year lease. Although a year’s rent at their asking price ain’t nothing, the thought of possibly forfeiting that amount “if the worst should come to pass” isn’t making me less interested at this point.
One more thing here – I have indeed thought of, and am even pursuing, the idea of renting PricyHouse and then *sharing it.* I fully know, as we’ve been discussing over at the Riot for Austerity among other places, that sharing homes may well be the way of the future. There is one girlfriend here, KH, who is looking, and I’ve told her about this place, and she’ll check it out and see if she’s interested. But I gotta say, I *TOTALLY* hate the idea of sharing my home space with someone who isn’t “family”! Just hate it! KH is the only person I know here (who’s looking) who I think I’d even consider sharing with. In fact, I know a few other people who are looking – a somewhat elderly man who just lost his rental in a fire (and who is just getting to the point of it not being such a good idea for him to continue living on his own anyway), as well as a young girl barely 20 who works at the local cafe. If I were a really good sustainable community citizen, I’d offer them each a room in PricyHouse, but I just don’t think I could handle it. It’s one thing to wave at someone when you pass on the street, or to chat with someone a few minutes each week; it’s another entirely to find out that they smoke, and how much they drink, and what kind of junk they eat, how late they like to stay out at night and what kinds of friends they bring over. This sounds horrible, I know, and the kind of thing that we’re all going to have to get over, soon, when few of us can afford to live alone any more. But as much as I’d like to be an “early adapter” in that regard, I just don’t think I can do it quite yet. Maybe I can share with KH. Maybe. Or maybe I’d rather have my private space even more than I’d like to have half the rent and the ability to say I’m a good sharer. Hmm…
Feb 12: THE “P” WORD
I had a flashback to someone *else’s* high school experience today. A woman who is more-than-an-acquaintance-though-not-quite-a-friend was offering me encouraging words about my search for a house. She was assuring me that I’d find something soon/good, because, she said, “you’re very popular.” You could have knocked me over with a feather! Immediately I was back in high school, roughly the last time I heard anyone use that word to indicate anything meaningful. But if you’d asked people who knew me in high school, you would have found some people who said I was ’smart,’ even a few people who thought I was ‘nice,’ but you would *never* have found anyone using the “P” word to describe me. It just wasn’t my path. What an odd feeling to hear her say that, and know that she meant it as a compliment, and it might even be true in the sense that she meant it, but – it’s just a concept I’d long ago stopped thinking mattered. No way to stop that flashback, though….
Feb 11: MY FIRST STASH
I opened the knitting care package my mom sent a few weeks ago, that I’ve been saving to open “in a good space.” She sent me a bunch of knitting needles and yarn she had stored away from back when she used to do that kind of stuff.
Thanks Mom!








